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Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Expect the Unexpected

If you have been following our blog, you know that over Memorial Day weekend we embarked on the adventure of painting the exterior of the house by ourselves. And I use “by ourselves” quite loosely since we were fortunate enough to have Justin’s sister and parents in town to help out. Thank you, thank you, thank you to my in-laws! Kendry loved the time with Grandma and Cousin Ava.

Our plan of attack for painting didn’t go quite as planned. The prep work we had anticipated doing on Friday evening took pretty much all of Saturday morning to accomplish instead; we didn’t even start the painting the body of the house until Sunday morning; Justin was attacked by a migraine halfway through painting the body of the house on Sunday and had to lay down for a few hours; and our attempts to finish up the trim on Monday were thwarted by fairly continuous ran all day long. Not to mention that my in-laws had to be on their way back home. But despite the odds, the body of the house is painted (w/ two coats)! The trim is still a work in progress, as are the foundation, stairs and carport, so I’m sure you understand why I will not be posting before and after pics just yet. You deserve the full effect. But let me say that the house is already looking a hundred times better, and we are very happy with our color choice.

Memorial Day afternoon found us with lots more trim to paint, the in-laws departed, our kiddo waking up from his afternoon nap, and still no sign of a break in the rain clouds. At that point we decided to take a much-needed break and get away from the house. Where is a family to go on a rainy holiday afternoon? Home Depot, of course! We purchased some new outside light fixtures, picked up a few more paint supplies, and optimistically selected some parsley and pumpkin starter plants (our gardening skills are a bit lacking, but we still try). Kendry even got to take his first ride in the orange Home Depot racecar shopping cart. While he doesn’t yet understand the concept of a steering wheel, he was notably more content cruising around in the “car” as we shopped. When we emerged from Home Depot the clouds were dispersing and the sun was shining through in all its beauty. Perhaps God used the rain to get us to spend some time as a family.

Then we enjoyed the rare occurrence of a sit-down meal as a family. We don’t really eat out much, especially with a very vocal and mobile kiddo in tow. But Kendry was very well-behaved while Justin and I shared a delicious plate-sized hamburger. As we left the restaurant and headed home, I had one of those incredibly peaceful and joyous moments where I thought “I absolutely love my life.” This realization rang true even more when we pulled up to our freshly painted house. Did I mention how much I love the color?

From that point on the details are a little sketchy. I unloaded Kendry from the car and took him inside while Justin headed down to the basement to put a few painting things away. A few minutes later I called down to Justin to please get the rest of the things from the car. His reply: “Well, we’ve got more important issues down here right now.” Gulp! “Its flooded.” Double gulp! I quickly grabbed my unattended kiddo and treaded fearfully down the stairs to the basement. Sure enough, water all over the floor. Justin is looking at me, I’m looking at him, we’re both standing in a giant pool of water, and Kendry is struggling to get out of my arms and walk around. What to do? The words “shopvac” and “pack-n-play” spring to mind. I drag the pack-n-play from upstairs, set it in a dry area (thank goodness there was one), and unload a now unhappy kiddo into it, where he promptly busts out the tears and cries. Then Justin and I start sucking up the water with our amazing shopvac and moving stuff out of the growing pool of water. Let me just say here that shopvacs are about the best invention since sliced bread. Ours paid for itself ten times over in this mishap.


Looking back now, I’m pretty proud of how quickly we reacted. And once we had a few minutes to survey the damage we realized we got pretty lucky. We caught the water before it reached more prized items like mattresses, furniture or keepsakes. And most of our stuff is elevated a few inches off the floor anyway, in anticipation of an event just as this. A few of my boxes of books that were on the concrete floor got soaked, but only a few books inside the boxes were actually wet, which leads me to believe the water hadn’t been going all that long.

We also got lucky in that while the water appeared to be backing up from our main basement drain, it was only musty smelling. At first we thought it was just rainwater since we have received so much rain over the last few weeks and had removed our rain gutters for painting. A further inspection, however, would not be so reassuring. With most of the water sucked up (at least 6-7 shopvac bucket’s full), I put Kendry to bed upstairs and flushed a toilet to see what would happen. Sure enough, more water. And more of a sinking feeling in my stomach. You see, we aren’t on city water/sewer; we have our own septic system. Enough said.

Not wanting to pay someone to come out on a holiday evening, we decided to stick it out until morning and just not use too much water in the meantime. Justin has gotten up during the night the last two nights to make sure the water isn’t seeping out again. Mr. Rooter came yesterday and couldn’t find a clog, but did recommend that we have the septic pumped in order to figure out why it isn’t draining properly. RotoRooter came today and pumped the septic. Now Mr. Rooter is supposed to come back this week and do another flush/pump to see if the drain field itself has a clog. Best case scenario: a drain clog is discovered and cleared up, and we’re out about $1,000. Worst case scenario: our drain field is no longer functioning properly and has to be re-built, and we’re out at least $5,000-$6,000, not to mention that we will have to re-do our yard and sprinkler system (more $) as a result of digging up our back yard. Right now we’re praying and awaiting the diagnosis.

My first thought: the money. We have a small emergency fund (thanks, Dave Ramsey) that will cover the best case scenario. It would hurt a little, but its doable. The worst case scenario, however, is another story.

My second thought: Justin’s yard. He has put hours and hours of hard work into his yard, flowers and landscaping. And we have put a fair chunk of change into the yard and getting our sprinkler system installed. And now we might have to dig a good portion of that up? Its heartbreaking to even consider.

My third thought: babies. You heard me right. It occurred to me this morning that if we have to shell out $5,000-$6,000 to fix the septic we are taking a giant step backward from our next chance at IVF and having Baby #2. This makes me want to cry. God has been revealing so much to me lately about enjoying each day for all that it holds and not constantly wondering when we will be able to expand our family. Lately I have felt more and more peace about truly leaving it in His hands. And then we get flooded, literally and figuratively.

Lord, please give me strength to keep trusting in You, even with something like our malfunctioning septic system. I know you can bring good out of any tough situation. Blessed be Your name.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

What it Means to Be a Mother

I found this on J&K today and was so moved when I read it. Perhaps it is because Mother's Day falls in May, but over the last few weeks I have been pondering exactly what it means to be a mother. Carrying a child in your womb and giving birth to him/her is one thing; mothering day in and day out is another. No, it isn't easy, but it is rewarding in a way I never imagined.


Before I go to bed each night I sneak into Kendry's room and watch him sleep. In those quiet moments, as I watch my baby's chest move up and down with each breath, I am overcome that God has entrusted such a precious gift to our keeping.



A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"

God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."

God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

Again the small child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"

God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

"Who will protect me?"

God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."

"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

God said, You will simply call her, "Mom."

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Ten

1. The 10 is back! I took a little hiatus from the 10 blog these last two weeks. Sometimes it takes a lot out of me coming up with ten (interesting) things to write about each week, and really, I can’t be expected to be verbally witty for your entertainment all the time. Or maybe its just that our life is that dull lately…. nah, that can’t be it. Here is my proof:


2. Kendry is walking! Or is it called cruising? Oh, who cares about those technicalities anyway?! All I know is that he is taking off from one place to the next, with the cutest and proudest expression on his face. Its hard to catch him doing it on film though; he doesn't care too much for performing on cue.



3. This last Saturday marked the beginning of our new meal planning system. Now that Kendry is eating like a horse – no more baby food for him – I’ve decided to finally get serious about planning our menu and eating more well-balanced meals. I have mapped out two weeks’ worth of meals, complete with one leftover night each week, and I purchased all of the necessary groceries on Saturday. Oh, if you could have seen my hubby’s face when I told him the total grocery bill. Yikes! But like I said, Kendry is eating his fair share these days. Meal 1 on Saturday: grilled steaks, red potatoes and corn on the cob. Meal 2 on Sunday: Tuscan Pot Pie and side salad. Meal 3 on Monday: Sloppy Joes and sweet potato fries. Meal 4 on Tuesday: Taco Salad. We’re off to a good start!


For those of you playing catch-up, Justin is the chef in our house, and he is the first one home each day so he usually gets dinner going. Up until now we haven’t made too many attempts at a joint effort in getting healthy meals planned and on the table; instead, there is often a mad scramble at 5pm as we brainstorm something to prepare and then confirm we actually have the appropriate supplies to put the meal together. All hungry and no meal planning makes the Gimlin Family unhealthy eaters. I am hoping the new plan will remedy this.


4. I have recently become one of those people who carries a book around in her purse. What does that say about me? What does that say about my purse?


5. In taking inventory of my fridge, freezer and pantry for my meal planning, I happened upon some shredded zucchini in the chest freezer. This has me almost giddy because it means I can make more chocolate chip zucchini bread, just in time for our long, laborious weekend. Many thanks to our neighbor Max for the zucchini! This recipe is dee-lish - give it a try sometime:
3/4 C sugar
3 T vegetable oil
2 eggs
1 C applesauce
2 C flour
2 T unsweetened cocoa
1 1/4 t baking soda
1 t cinnamon
1/4 t salt
1 1/2 C finely shredded zucchini
1/2 C semi-sweet chocolate chips
Directions: Preheat oven to 350. Place first 3 ingredients in large bowl; beat w/ a mixer @ low speed until well-blended. Stir in applesauce. Combine flour and the next 4 ingredients (through salt) in separate bowl and stir well w/ whisk. Add flour mixture to sugar mixture, beating only until moist. Stir in zucchini and chocolate chips. Bake in greased loaf pan for 1 hour.


6. Here is an updated photo of Justin’s rose garden:Some of the roses didn’t survive the trip from Grandpa Wayne’s garden, but the majority of them are taking off just fine. Justin made the wooden post in the center himself; he has yet to decide which type of vine he is going to plant to climb it.


7. The house painting begins this weekend, weather permitting. I am going to leave you in suspense for now on the color(s) we have chosen. Rest assured, we will post before and after pics for you to oooh and ahhh over. And you’d better do just that.


8. Oooo, I almost forgot this one. Kendry had his 12 month appointment last week. He surpassed our expectations by weighing in at 25lbs 8oz, which is the 83rd percentile (our one year goal for him was at least 25lbs). He measured 32.75in tall (99th percentile!) and his head measured in the 88th percentile. My big and tall baby is wearing size 24m clothes these days.

9. Justin's work is sending him to Seattle again for a few days in June. I would love to come up with a quick home improvement project I could do in his absence (i.e. without his approval), like a really bold colored accent wall in the living room, or finally stealing his nightstand and re-doing it for the spare bedroom. But the truth is that I had the same intentions to complete a project the last time he was gone, and I was lucky to find five spare minutes to myself at the end of each day. Single parenthood, even for just a few days, is tough! But don't give up on me yet - I just might pull off a project. Its all in the planning ahead of time.

10. After hearing about a friend of mine completing a half marathon recently I am inspired. I have found my race (Spokane Marathon or Leavenworth Marathon, both in October) and have found an easy to follow 12-week training schedule for a first-timer. I won’t need to start my 12-week plan until July, but in the meantime I am adjusting my regular workouts so I have a good training base to work with come July. Hooray for preparing to check something off my Age 30 Bucket List!

Friday, May 21, 2010

Age 30 Bucket List

WARNING: 30TH BIRTHDAY AHEAD



With only two months to go until I am forced to accept the fact that I am officially THIRTY YEARS OLD, I am quickly running out of time to check items off my Age 30 Bucket List. Not that I’m arriving at 30 with nothing to show for it. In fact, I’m pretty happy with the big ticket items I have accomplished to date:

1. Earned my Bachelor’s Degree (2003)
2. Got married (2005)
3. Bought a house (2006)
4. Had a baby (2009)
5. Completed a triathlon (2005)
6. Went on a cruise (2003)
7. Got a tattoo (2003)

I realize at the mere age of 30 it seems a bit morbid to start a real bucket list. I certainly don’t intend to "kick the bucket" any time in the near future. And if I am fortunate enough to inherit the longevity from my mother’s side of the family, I should still have a good 60 years left to check off things like traveling to Italy, going sky-diving and/or bungee jumping, ice-skating at Rockefeller Center, and taking a real road trip with my sisters (Fairbanks to Anchorage and vice versa doesn’t count, girls). Can't you just see the Binder sisters in our 70s and 80s driving down Highway 1 in a vintage red convertible, our blue hair blowing in the breeze?

Being the goal-oriented person that I am, I feel like I should commemorate this milestone birthday by setting some goals for my 30th year (i.e. goals that I intend to achieve by my 31st birthday).

Here is what I have so far:

1.
Complete a half marathon (October)

2. Get pregnant with Baby #2

3. Take the boat tour into Hells Canyon (this is a local tourist activity)

4. Take my hubby on a REAL vacation so he finally sees what all the fuss is about (perhaps I should also put this on Justin's Age 30 Bucket List)

5. Finish reading the Twilight saga (I have been halfway through the first book for three months now)

6. Eat an "Idaho Spud" candy bar (just cuz I need a quirky eating goal)



This list is a work in progress. Any suggestions?

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Sunday Sunbathing

This last Sunday afternoon was a bit overcast, but still exceeded 80 degrees, so we brought out Kendry's wading pool for the first time and let him at it. I swear it was hot enough outside to do this, but you would think I was letting my child freeze judging by this picture.
Okay, now he is getting the hang of it.

How can you not melt at the sight of this toothy grin?

Daddy was inside making us homemade pizzas for dinner, so Kendry kept his seat warm for him. And by warm I mean with his bare buns. After all, whats an afternoon in the wading pool if you can't enjoy it in the buff?Don' t I have just the cutest sunbathing buddy?

Oh who am I kidding? My kiddo is as fair-skinned as I am. Sunbathing, shmunbathing! We were both coated with 50 SPF and were still wanting for an umbrella to hide in the shade.

I'm convinced Kendry couldn't have cared less about the pool that afternoon. His main source of pleasure came simply from playing outside sans clothing.
All together now: "If you're naked and you know it, clap your hands!"